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Kita Tatkala Dalam Kubur

Bagaimana Aqal Kita Tatkala Di Dalam Kubur? 
Apa perasan kita jika berselubung di dalam selimut tebal di waktu tengahari? 

Cuba lakukan ia selama sepuluh minit sambil berbaring seperti sekujur tubuh yang telah mati. Tanpa kipas, penghawa dingin dan tingkap dan pintu di tutup rapat. Siapakah yang mampu bertahan lebih dari 30 minit? Sudah tentu minda dan tubuh kita tidak mampu menanggung ketidakselesaan itu walaupun hanya untuk 10 minit.

Aku pasti kerana aku pernah mencubanya (dalam mimpi , haha..). Panas dan berhaba. Setiap kali aku fikirkan semula percubaan aku itu, aku terfikir keadaan di alam barzakh kelak. Terutamanya di liang lahad yang sempit, tertutup, tanpa penghawa dingin, tilam, tingkap serta kipas itu.  

Sewaktu kita berada di alam barzakh kelak, adakah pancaindera dan penilaian minda kita terhadap alam ini sama seperti sewaktu kehidupan biasa kita di dunia?

Apabila aku utarakan hal ini. Ramai yang menjawab : "Tidak" atau juga "tidak tahu" Apa jawapannya sebenar?


Suka aku membawakan sebuah hadis berikut:

Sesungguhnya Nabi Muhammad s.a.w menyebut berkenaan ujian-ujian di dalam kubur. Lalu Umar al-Khattab r.a bertanya : "Adakah akan dikembalikan kepada kita aqal-aqal kita (di dalam kubur kelak)?" Nabi menjawab: Ya, (ia akan dikembalikan) sebagaimana keadaan kamu (sekarang) : 
(Riwayat Ahmad, no 6603, 2/172 ; Ibn Hibban, 7/387 ; Majma Zawaid , 3/47 : Al-Haithami : Perawi Ahmad adalah Sohih kecuali terdapat Ibn Lahi'ah ; Syeikh Syuaib : Hasan Lighairi)

Bagaimana pula jika terpaksa menunggu di alam kubur ni sepanjang seribu tahun sebagaimana yang dikenakan kepada si Abu Jahal! Dalam keadaan status penilaian aqal kita sama seperti di waktu hidup, tetapi status keadaan tubuh dan keselesaannya adalah diletakkan di ruang liang lahad yang kecil, berselimut dek kain kapan dan ditimbus oleh tanah.


Namun, bagi mereka yang derhaka kepada Allah swt, disebutkan di dalam sebuah lagi hadis
 
"Sesungguhnya di dalam kubur itu terdapat himpitan, dan jika seorang itu mampu selamat darinya sudah tentu (salah seorangnya) adalah Sa'ad Bin Muadz ( seorang sahabat Nabi yang hebat )" 
( Riwayat Ahmad, dengan sanad yang baik ; al-Mughni 'an hamlil asfar, no 4466, 2/1237 ; Ibn Hibban, Sohih, 7/379 ; Al-ahadith Al-Mukhtarah, Dhiya ad-Din al-Maqdisi, 5/200 ; Al-Maqdisi : Perawinya thiqat)

Ya, ruh terperangkap di dalam jasad di kuburan dan merasai azab himpitan dan lainnya yang amat berat lagi perit. Moga kita dijauhkan Allah swt dari keadaan ini. Hanya amal soleh yang dapat memberikan keselesaan tatkala itu. Ya, benar, bagi yang bersedia, bersukar untuk mempelajari, mengamalkan, dan mengajarkan Islam kepada orang ramai dengan ikhlas dan tulus, mereka akan dikurniakan kenikmatan barzakh yang bermula dengan ruhnya diangkat dan dimasukkan ke dalam burung-burung berwarna hijau dan berterbangan serta menikmati makanan di pepohon syurga.
Demikian sabdaan Nabi s.a.w yang mengatakan :
 
Sesungguhnya ruh orang mukmin itu seperti burung (atau berada di dalam burung - bermakna tidaklah kelihatan ruh manusia berterbangan), yang menikmati hidangan (dan berterbangan bebas) di pepohon Syurga sehinggalah dikembalikannya oleh Allah ke jasadnya di hari kebangkitannya.
( Riwayat Malik, Tirmidzi & Ibn HIbban : Hadis Sohih ; Ibn Hibban, Arnout, Syakir)


Aku tak kisah andai sesiapa cakap ini just retorik ..
ko akan tahu ini retorik atau realiti bila kau alami sendiri ..
orang mati xpernah balik ke dunia melainkan hantu kak limah balik rumah ..
hanya jin dan manusia sahaja yang tidak mendengar suara azab kubur ..
andailah Allah membuka hijab pendengaran , maybe manusia akan jadi GILA ..
setiap hari dengar orang menjerit ..
lagi kesian andai rumah dekat kubur .. haha..


WASSALAM ..

Appreciate Your Partner

When I got home that night as my wife served dinner, I held her hand and said, I've got something to tell you. She sat down and ate quietly. Again I observed the hurt in her eyes.

Suddenly I didn't know how to open my mouth. But I had to let her know what I was thinking. I want a divorce. I raised the topic calmly.
She didn't seem to be annoyed by my words, instead she asked me softly, why?

I avoided her question. This made her angry. She threw away the chopsticks and shouted at me, you are not a man! That night, we didn't talk to each other. She was weeping. I knew she wanted to find out what had happened to our marriage. But I could hardly give her a satisfactory answer; she had lost my heart to Jane. I didn't love her anymore. I just pitied her!

With a deep sense of guilt, I drafted a divorce agreement which stated that she could own our house, our car, and 30% stake of my company.

She glanced at it and then tore it into pieces. The woman who had spent ten years of her life with me had become a stranger. I felt sorry for her wasted time, resources and energy but I could not take back what I had said for I loved Jane so dearly. Finally she cried loudly in front of me, which was what I had expected to see. To me her cry was actually a kind of release. The idea of divorce which had obsessed me for several weeks seemed to be firmer and clearer now.

The next day, I came back home very late and found her writing something at the table. I didn't have supper but went straight to sleep and fell asleep very fast because I was tired after an eventful day with Jane.

When I woke up, she was still there at the table writing. I just did not care so I turned over and was asleep again.

In the morning she presented her divorce conditions: she didn't want anything from me, but needed a month's notice before the divorce. She requested that in that one month we both struggle to live as normal a life as possible. Her reasons were simple: our son had his exams in a month's time and she didn't want to disrupt him with our broken marriage.

This was agreeable to me. But she had something more, she asked me to recall how I had carried her into out bridal room on our wedding day.
She requested that every day for the month's duration I carry her out of our bedroom to the front door ever morning. I thought she was going crazy. Just to make our last days together bearable I accepted her odd request.

I told Jane about my wife's divorce conditions. . She laughed loudly and thought it was absurd. No matter what tricks she applies, she has to face the divorce, she said scornfully.

My wife and I hadn't had any body contact since my divorce intention was explicitly expressed. So when I carried her out on the first day, we both appeared clumsy. Our son clapped behind us, daddy is holding mommy in his arms. His words brought me a sense of pain. From the bedroom to the sitting room, then to the door, I walked over ten meters with her in my arms. She closed her eyes and said softly; don't tell our son about the divorce. I nodded, feeling somewhat upset. I put her down outsidethe door. She went to wait for the bus to work. I drove alone to the office.

On the second day, both of us acted much more easily. She leaned on my chest. I could smell the fragrance of her blouse. I realized that I hadn't looked at this woman carefully for a long time. I realized she was not young any more. There were fine wrinkles on her face, her hair was graying! Our marriage had taken its toll on her. For a minute I wondered what I had done to her.

On the fourth day, when I lifted her up, I felt a sense of intimacy returning. This was the woman who had given ten years of her life to me.
On the fifth and sixth day, I realized that our sense of intimacy was growing again. I didn't tell Jane about this. It became easier to carry her as the month slipped by. Perhaps the everyday workout made me stronger.

She was choosing what to wear one morning. She tried on quite a few dresses but could not find a suitable one. Then she sighed, all my dresses have grown bigger. I suddenly realized that she had grown so thin, that was the reason why I could carry her more easily.

Suddenly it hit me... she had buried so much pain and bitterness in her heart. Subconsciously I reached out and touched her head.

Our son came in at the moment and said, Dad, it's time to carry mom out. To him, seeing his father carrying his mother out had become an essential part of his life. My wife gestured to our son to come closer and hugged him tightly. I turned my face away because I was afraid I might change my mind at this last minute. I then held her in my arms, walking from the bedroom, through the sitting room, to the hallway. Her hand surrounded my neck softly and naturally. I held her body tightly; it was just like our wedding day.

But her much lighter weight made me sad. On the last day, when I held her in my arms I could hardly move a step. Our son had gone to school. I held her tightly and said, I hadn't noticed that our life lacked intimacy.
I drove to office.... jumped out of the car swiftly without locking the door. I was afraid any delay would make me change my mind...I walked upstairs. Jane opened the door and I said to her, Sorry, Jane, I do not want the divorce anymore.

She looked at me, astonished, and then touched my forehead. Do you have a fever? She said. I moved her hand off my head. Sorry, Jane, I said, I won't divorce. My marriage life was boring probably because she and I didn't value the details of our lives, not because we didn't love each other anymore. Now I realize that since I carried her into my home on our wedding day I am supposed to hold her until death do us apart.
Jane seemed to suddenly wake up. She gave me a loud slap and then slammed the door and burst into tears. I walked downstairs and drove away.

At the floral shop on the way, I ordered a bouquet of flowers for my wife. The salesgirl asked me what to write on the card. I smiled and wrote, I'll carry you out every morning until death do us apart.

That evening I arrived home, flowers in my hands, a smile on my face, I run up stairs, only to find my wife in the bed - dead.
My wife had been fighting CANCER for months and I was so busy with Jane to even notice. She knew that she would die soon and she wanted to save me from the whatever negative reaction from our son, in case we push thru with the divorce.-- At least, in the eyes of our son--- I'm a loving husband....

The small details of your lives are what really matter in a relationship. It is not the mansion, the car, property, the money in the bank. These create an environment conducive for happiness but cannot give happiness in themselves. So find time to be your spouse's friend and do those little things for each other that build intimacy. Do have a real happy marriage!

If you don't share this, nothing will happen to you.

If you do, you just might save a marriage.
Many of life's failures are people who did not realize how close they were to success when they gave up.

Petua Imam Syafie

PETUA IMAM SYAFIE
4 PERKARA UNTUK SIHAT
Empat perkara menguatkan badan
1. makan daging
2. memakai haruman
3. kerap mandi
4. berpakaian dari kapas

Empat perkara melemahkan badan
1.. banyak berkelamin (bersetubuh)
2. selalu cemas
3. banyak minum air ketika makan
4. banyak makan bahan yang masam

Empat perkara menajamkan mata
1. duduk mengadap kiblat
2. bercelak sebelum tidur
3. memandang yang hijau
4. berpakaian bersih

Empat perkara merosakkan mata
1. memandang najis
2. melihat orang dibunuh
3. melihat kemaluan
4. membelakangi kiblat

Empat perkara menajamkan fikiran
1. tidak banyak berbual kosong
2. rajin bersugi (gosok gigi)
3. bercakap dengan orang soleh
4. bergaul dengan para ulama

4 CARA TIDUR

1. TIDUR PARA NABI
Tidur terlentang sambil berfikir tentang kejadian langit dan
bumi.

2. TIDUR PARA ULAMA’ & AHLI IBADAH
Miring ke sebelah kanan untuk memudahkan terjaga untuk solat
malam.

3. TIDUR PARA RAJA YANG HALOBA
Miring ke sebelah kiri untuk mencernakan makanan yang banyak
dimakan.

4. TIDUR SYAITAN
Menelungkup/ tiarap seperti tidurnya ahli neraka.

Larangan Allah : Cemuhan

" Wahai orang-orang yang beriman, janganlah sesuatu puak mencemuh dan merendah-rendahkan puak lelaki yang lain, kerana harus puak yang dicemuhkan itu lebih baik daripada mereka, dan janganlah pula sesuatu puak dari kaum perempuan yang lain, kerana harus puak yang dicemuh itu lebih baik daripada mereka; dan janganlah sesetengah kamu menyatakan keaiban sesetengahnya yang lain, dan janganlah pula kamu panggil memanggil antara satu sama lain dengan gelaran yang buruk, amatlah buruknya sebutan nama fasiq sesudah ia beriman. Dan ingatlah, sesiapa yang tidak bertaubat daripada perbuatan fasiqnya maka merekalah orang-orang yang zalim "

[surah al-hujurat ayat 11] 

Abu Daud RA.meriwayatkan dari Abi Darda RA, bahwa Rasulullah SAW. bersabda : "Bila seorang hamba mengutuk sesuatu, maka kutukan itu naik ke langit tapi pintu langit tertutup. Lalu ia turun ke bumi tapi pintu bumi pun tertutup. Kemudian kutukan itu pun bergerak ke kanan dan ke kiri. Saat ia tidak menemukan jalan keluar atau jalan masuk maka kutukan itu kembali kepada orang yang dikutuk jika memang ia pantas untuk dikutuk. Jika tidak maka kutukan itu kembali ketuannya (orang yang mengucapkannya)"

[ HR.Bukhari dan Ibnu Hajar ]

Cara Mengubah Nasib Hidup

"Sesungguhnya Allah tidak akan mengubah 

nasib sesuatu kaum sehingga mereka

mengubah keadaan yang ada pada diri mereka 

sendiri " 

  Surah Ar-Ra’d (ayat 11)